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"I like writing that’s maybe, on the surface level, political, but also goes so deep into someone’s human experience that everyone finds some commonality there." A great description of how great truths are revealed through someone's specific story. I always loved this Terry Eagleton quote for a similar reason: "The mystery of art is how black marks on a page, or pigment on a canvas, or the scraping of a bow on catgut, can be so richly evocative of life."

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Apr 11, 2022Liked by Hormone Hangover

Thank you Grace🙏

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Apr 14, 2022·edited Apr 14, 2022

The title of your essay says it all. The notes from your diary say it all in brief and concise sentences. I shall pass this on to someone sooo close who got caught up in this adventure I dare call madness, I have had long conversations with her, trying to get her to understand that if body and mind don't get together, it's not by punishing either one that you can live a whole life. I went to a local "club" where she would go, I had a long and fairly acrimonious talk with the adult leading it, a man so caught up in this strange idea, I had the feeling I was speaking to a cult leader.

Thank you for the courage of coming out and speaking. There is one thing that so many transgenders share, whether transitioned or not: Enormous concern for their health, for their standing in the world, in society. It can be seen as a form of self-absorption, but it is not really, because it is in relations with others.; and they are remarkably articulate and intelligent, which is why they probably get all wrapped up in this issue. As I accompany this "someone" close, I realized something. We are both on the autism spectrum (I'm much older, but my youth problems.... resemble hers) , It is a strange discovery and explains our capacity to obsess over, at times, trivial things. I think it got us into this, and it will get us out of it.

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Can't wait to hear the conversation with Bridget! I appreciate you sharing your story, and all of these others.

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